April 19, 2005

Dear RHJ

My dear,

Sigh. I know exactly how you feel and, if you are anything like me, this situation probably pains and saddens you. Just you remember that your friends love you (even if they don't have the best ideas at time). Also, keep in mind that people have crushes on other people even when they are in committed relationships, that's perfectly natural (you don't stop being a girl when you start dating a boy, sheesh).

On the one hand, I feel you should be able to express yourself freely; and on the other, I understand your bf for being annoyed at the situation (though if he did read it carefully, he would be flattered at the way you described him ;)

Anyhow sweetie, just wait a little longer, thing'll straighten up in the end...

(let me know if you want me to remove this post)


Magali said...


Since I can't post a comment on RHJ's blog, I am using yours to send her 3 quotes I find appropriate...

Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart. ~William Wordsworth

I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship. ~Louisa May Alcott

Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will find them gradually, without noticing it, and live along some distant day into the answer. ~Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

(you can obviously delete this post later on... Thanks!)

Red Handed Jill said...

thank you very much, 007 and magali! you are both so nice and please don't delete this.

hsnuelaine said...

Dorothee...I've been looking for you...I am going to Lusaka in May! Email me please....